age difference

Nat Case ncase at
Tue Sep 19 10:54:45 EDT 2000

Age difference does seem to be a running theme in her stories... 
mostly older man-younger women is good, you'll notice. In Fire and 
Hemlock she even addresses the problematic nature of these situations 
in Fiona's experience with her father's friend from Germany. But 
perhaps this is shown to contrast a youthful crush with a long-term 
friendship that over time might turn into something else.


Relationships with the ageless are more theoretical, as agelessness 
is (as far as we know) only a metaphor in our world. The discussion 
brought SANDMAN to mind again, in the person of Hob Gadling, who 
makes a deal with Dream to stay the same age. Dream meets Hob every 
100 years, and in the end Hob makes so bold as to suggest Dream is 
lonely, and needs mortal friends.

This echoes the HOMEWARD BOUNDERS' Jamie: "You wouldn't believe how 
lonely you get."

I haven't read a lot of Jung, but one piece that sticks in my mind is 
his description of how, as a very young boy, he was a ware of an "old 
man" inside him, full of wisdom and insight. This is what comes to 
mind when agelessness in a character comes oneself up to 
the old man or woman (in wiccan terms, the Crone) in you. It does, I 
think, have a way of making one lonely. It is certainly ultimately a 
solo endeavor...Jamie's story is a neat summary of how that can be, 
even in the midst of comrades and friends.

Back to work (mapping the commuter rail lines of Philadelphia. Yum (not).)


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